Independence Day

Today I celebrate our Nation's Independence as well as the Independence I see around me in the women I admire. Independence is a tricky word. Webster defines Independence as Politically selfgoverning; free from control of others; not relying on others. I believe there is a deeper meaning to that powerful word. Being Independent doesn't mean you can't lean on the strength of others in hard times. It doesn't mean that you can't reach out for advice in tough situations. It does, however, mean that the final step must be our own. To be Independent you are required to truely listen to your own heart and follow your own beliefs and dreams.
I feel that after weeks of counseling, I am finally able to say that I'm on the road to being Independent. I will always value the opinions of my loved ones, but I hope to be strong enough to listen to what my own heart tells me. I want to fall down to see how quickly I can get back up. I want to get hurt, to learn compassion. I want to work hard to value the feeling of success. So happy Independence Day to our Nation and to the women in my life who know what it's like to be Independent. I love You!